Responses to comments and questions...
1. Megan asked:
“Why oh why is TBT so slow with
the foods? Perhaps a wee nip on his ankle would speed him along”.
There is a process.
First, because the cats don’t eat a whole can at once, there are
leftovers of varying amounts and those are refrigerated. So the cold can has to be warmed in a
shallow tray of hot water for 5 minutes.
Then the proper amount for each cat must be spooned out carefully. Marley gets the most (being the
largest). Ayla gets about 1/2 as
much (being only 1.2 Marley’s weight. Iza’s food has to be smeared around the edges of her bowl to
slow down her eating rate or she “returns it”.
Iza will eat as much food as she can get at, as fast as she
can eat it, as often as she can get it.
I got her 3rd-hand so I don’t know about her kittenhood. But apparently she had some
food-issues.
I even have to give them all small amounts for the first
meal of the day. Iza can’t handle
more than a spoonful the first meal, and if I give Marley a full amount, Iza
noses in on it when I’m not looking.
Ayla gets a regular amount because she eats out of Iza’s reach.
Marley and Ayla want to go outside right after that, so Iza
gets a 2nd spoonful 15-20 minutes later. After that, everything seems OK. Mealtimes can be a real dance around here!
2. Summer commented:
“That's interesting that all three
of you have gotcha days in January”.
It was mostly coincidence. In December 2007, came across a local Siamese cat breeder,
and mentioned that if she ever had a kitten that didn’t quite meet her selling
standards, I might be interested.
As it turned out, she had female too small for breeding and her regular
Queen had a litter on the way and she didn’t like having other cats in the
house with newborns. So I got Ayla
in January 2008.
When Skeeter died in December 2008, Ayla was lonely (she
loved Skeeter and LC was mourning him and not being friendly). So I emailed the same breeder and she
happened to have a Siamese female “with smudged colors” and wasn’t good
breeding material. So I took
her. That was Iza. Well Iza was really a Tonkinese and her
colors were proper for her, but the breeder didn’t realize that. My thanks to the “A Tonk’s Tails” blog
for telling me Iza was a Tonkie!
But after a year, Ayla and Iza weren’t getting along well
(Iza was twice her size, and a bit “assertive”), so I remembered that Skeeter
had always been a peacemaker. It
seemed to me that Orange/White male cats had always been calm, so I searched
for one. The shelters always
seemed to have brothers that had to go together, and that was exactly NOT the
point.
This is a bit embarrassing, but I don’t recall who directed
me to a CraigsList notice about an Orange/White male cat for adoption (please
feel free to remind me so that I can keep that in my cat file, and thank you
once again).
I emailed the owner, and she sent a picture. I fell in love with him. She explained that Marley had been a
Christmas gift from a friend, but it turned out she was allergic to cats. She loved him dearly, but wanted the
best possible home for him.
I had to work to get him, as he had been promised to a
family. I pointed out that I was
retired and could give him attention all day. I mentioned the large fenced-in back yard full of
moles. I told her about the
high-quality food I gave my cats.
I sent her pictures of all the toys and scratchers.
She suggested I come visit to see how he reacted to me. I came. She called “Marley”, and he walked right down the
stairs. I sat on the floor cross
legged and he came right over and curled up on my lap.
That settled everything right there! Marley went home with me, with his bag
of Meow Mix, his litter box, and his one toy (a cloth fish with a Velcro strip
that allowed you to stuff catnip in.
Over the first few days, I mixed better food in with his
Meow Mix, emptied the old-style clay in his litter box and bleached it (in case
of parasites), and put real catnip in his fish (which I examined and discovered
had never had any catnip in it.).
He arrived January 22.
So Marley was 4th-hand. He was, apparently, born in a house as
one of a litter of unwanted kittens, then spent time in a shelter, then spent a
month in a house where the owner was allergic, then came here. I’ll count that as 4.
I got Skeeter on Halloween 1992. I got LC on Halloween 1993 deliberately. Ayla, Iza and Marley came into my life
at the same week of different years entirely by accident.
BTW, Ayla and Iza got their names from a series of books I
loved (‘Clan Of The Cave Bear’).
Ayla was the main character, a Cro-magnon orphan, and Iza was the
adopting Neanderthal mother. I had
intended a next cat to be named in the same style of the books, but when the
lady said his name was “Marley”, I knew at once that “Marley” was exactly the
right name. It just fit him perfectly.
“Marley” he was and “Marley” he stays.
Marley has lived up to my expectations. From nearly his first days out of the
adjustment room, he brought peace into the house. Iza was larger than him, but accepted him as equal. Ayla loved him. They slept together after the 1st
week, ate together, and ran around
together.
3. Many
mentioned Ayla’s “Princess” poses, so I won’t list everyone. But from the first day she was here,
she had the royal “look”. Not all
Siamese do. She sits upright with
her ruff showing and her long tail curled around the front paws. She eats daintily. She draws but only “allows” attention.
She only wants to see me at eye-height. If she is on the floor, she pulls
away. If she is “up”, she demands
my attention. We HAVE to be at
least equal in height (and she likes it better if she is just a little above
me) for her to feel comfortable.
She likes to walk off the bathroom windowsill and walk
briefly around my shoulder, neck, and other shoulder before reclaiming her
windowsill spot.
She lives almost entirely in the bedroom. But if I open the deck door (however
stealthily) I can count down from 8 and she is there at the door. She is quite certain that I ONLY open
the door JUST FOR HER!
Ayla is certain that I give only her the best food in the
house. She is certain that the
Duck, Turkey, and Rabbit is ONLY for her.
That I give Marley and Iza cheap junk… She eats in the bedroom, so what does SHE know? I indulge her fantasies. Who wants to upset a true Princess?
Ask more questions, and I’ll do this more often…
Thank you so much for these answers - we love reading the history and routines. Gives us ideas here.....
ReplyDeleteMealtimes are more than just "a little dance" TBT - they're an extremely complex routine indeed.
ReplyDeleteMegan
Sydney, Australia
I love the story of Marley's gotcha day! It's clear that he knew right away that you were his human.
ReplyDeleteThanks for answering our questions! I love when you do that.
Petcretary loved reading those answers/stories of your kitties to me.
ReplyDeleteYou love your kitties so much! So all that work is not work but pleasing your furmily!
Our Angel Suki was often sitting like Ayla, and seemed to be drawing all eyes to her...she was a diva! MOL!
We always enjoy it when you answer questions from your comments!
ReplyDeleteI do like to read your answers to the questions and find them interesting.
ReplyDeleteMarley knew he was destined to live with you and was just waiting for you to turn up.
I enjoyed this post a lot. I think that is so cool that you wanted to name your next kitty Marley, and there he was. I love that he went right to you, clearly you were meant to be together. I did always wonder where the names originated from.
ReplyDeleteShe is indeed a true princess!
ReplyDeleteWe LOVE this! Thank you for answering questions we didn't even know we had. We wish more of our cat friends would do this. You have the best idea!
ReplyDeleteI loved the information and knowing the cats better. I enjoyed reading of their background.
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