LAZ AND ME:
Laz got a chair back. I made sure of it. He was happy.
And when he is happy, am happy. And we ALL are happy.
Laz peacefulness is a good but slow work. I talk to him a lot. Mostly soft sounds, but also when he comes to eat, I say "dinnertime" a lot. The sound will eventually come to mean something "good" to him. Worked for all the previous Mews...
And everytime he is calm in the house is a better day. Increments of peacefulness are good. Better today than yesterday is good. It has been 3 months. Laz is better than Day 1, and he will be calmer a few months from now. There is slow progress.